Welcome to the NVC Santa Cruz Community Page!
The community page provides a unique opportunity to make life more wonderful.
We hope that people will use this forum to find practice groups, post events, announcements, requests, NVC stories (Giraffe Tales) or other things they would like to share. We expect that it will grow and evolve over time.
To list your announcement or request, or provide feedback and suggestions, email us.
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Announcements and Requests
Santa Cruz practice group - actively looking for another member, late Aug '09 |
We meet 2 Thursday evenings a month, (one w/ a teacher, one w/o), on Routier St. near Emeline |
The contact person is Cynthia Adams, at 423-3156 or cynthiapond@cruzio.com |
Soquel practice group |
Meets on 2nd and 4th Wednesdays from 7 to 9pm at Soquel Dr. and Park Ave |
Call Maghi Thurlow 425-3109 |
Monterey |
WEDNESDAYS, 6:30 to 8:30pm in Seaside THURSDAYS, 6:30 to 8:30pm in Monterey |
Contact Eve Gage, |
Santa Cruz Neighborhood practice groups |
For information about joining a practice group with a consistent membership and meeting schedule, contact Rick. |
email Rick - longinotti@baymoon.com |
San Jose |
meets Thursdays 7-9 PM |
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Redwood City |
meets Tuesdays 7-9:30 PM |
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Sunny and Open Space for Rent at the Center for Compassion |
500 sq. ft. light, open, carpetted room for classes, yoga, meetings. Kitchen and parking. Small counselling room also available. Affordable and Convenient. |
459-6919 |
Availability: September 6th to January 1st
Preferred rent: $400 - $750
Description:
I am a medical student from Amsterdam that will be conducting an internship in Santa Cruz during the fall and winter.
I would like to find a room in a house with roommates that are friendly and enjoy life, students preferred. Would rather not live with a couple or family. I'd like my house to be on the west side of Santa Cruz. I'm a clean house mate, I like conversation and humour and since it is my first time in the US I plan on exploring the surroundings on the weekends.
I am a little allergic to pets and housedust, not bad, but just enough to make sure I keep the house clean :)
Personal interests: open to meeting new people, likes all kinds of activities including sports, music (play the piano), cooking, movies (though i'm not really up to date with movies haha), and going out in the weekends. Interested in learning how to surf.
Please reply directly to Daan if you can help: daandevries2 - at - hotmail - dot- com
Career |
Advance your career, business or life with professional development. |
David Thiermann |
Compassionate Legal Divorce |
Compassionate legal help for divorce, including property division and ongoing child support matters. Mediating attorney trained in NVC. Joint mediation sessions to help you compassionately navigate your transition. |
Monica Vantoch, J.D. |
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Join a Practice Group:
Without a trainer:
See Announcements and Requests at left for listings of current groups
Commitment for new groups with a trainer
Our plan is for a NVC trainer to meet with new groups for 4 weekly meetings. We ask that participants commit to 5-6 weeks total, the last 2 meetings without the trainer. (Cost for the trainer averages $80 per person in a group of 8 people). Our hope is that the groups will decide to continue in some fashion after the 6 weeks. Of course, the group may invite a trainer to spend time with the group at any point.
Format
A format that many people enjoy is one in which group members bring situations from their lives that they would like to get clearer about. Members of the group empathize with the person bringing a situation, guessing at that person’s needs. Sometimes a role-play is helpful. Click here to download “Guidelines for Practice Groups” that will give you an idea how to this type of group works best.
Another possibility is to follow the format in the Nonviolent Communication Workbook, developed by Lucy Leu. This book has exercises that the group can follow and is available in our bookstore.
For further information or to put out a call for a new group, contact Rick Longinotti.
If you’d like to list your group on this page, e-mail Jeremy.
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The NVC Model: a diagram
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Feelings Lists: a list of feelings when needs are and are not satisfied
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10 things we can do to contribute to internal, interpersonal, and organizational peace